To become between beloved man and the best friend is very common situation for many girls. Sure it is very hard for the man involved in it. You may be wonderful person and match your darling perfectly, but
it doesn't mean you will match her best friend you don't know and don't want to win at all! Meanwhile it is a person whose opinion is important for your beloved, who can influence her, who knows her much better because they are friends longer than you are a loving couple. Besides she remembers her previous relationships, knows her previous boyfriends and had her own opinion about the best partner for the girl you love! What to do? How to act in such a situation?
It is very difficult to keep good relationships if you both will be nearby disliking each other. The common mistake in the case is to demand your beloved to make a choice. You must not do it. All the
reasons we had talked about would work against you. If you compel her to do it, you may make her to meet secretly, to call when you don't hear, to make their friendship secret. Secret is always attractable
and you will lose the opportunity to control the situation.
The best way is to part the spheres of influence. Try to organize your life in such a way that you don't interfere in their women pastime and don't stop their friendship but you will not tolerate her friend's interference in your relationships. If her friend will not be afraid to lose your girl's friendship forever, she would take you more positively. And if she understand that your girl is happy with you,
she will not break your happiness!
it doesn't mean you will match her best friend you don't know and don't want to win at all! Meanwhile it is a person whose opinion is important for your beloved, who can influence her, who knows her much better because they are friends longer than you are a loving couple. Besides she remembers her previous relationships, knows her previous boyfriends and had her own opinion about the best partner for the girl you love! What to do? How to act in such a situation?
It is very difficult to keep good relationships if you both will be nearby disliking each other. The common mistake in the case is to demand your beloved to make a choice. You must not do it. All the
reasons we had talked about would work against you. If you compel her to do it, you may make her to meet secretly, to call when you don't hear, to make their friendship secret. Secret is always attractable
and you will lose the opportunity to control the situation.
The best way is to part the spheres of influence. Try to organize your life in such a way that you don't interfere in their women pastime and don't stop their friendship but you will not tolerate her friend's interference in your relationships. If her friend will not be afraid to lose your girl's friendship forever, she would take you more positively. And if she understand that your girl is happy with you,
she will not break your happiness!
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