Trifles In Relationships

The first and most improtant rule of relationships means that trifles in relationships don't exist! Another part of the rule assertains that trifle is trifle if you both think so.
What does it mean? Every action of ours, everything we are doing has its meaning. Trifles construct your life. You don't save world every day but you go to work, buy some food, wash your face, choose your shirt every day. Such things are simple, but it is something you spend all your life for. You must understand that your partner has different habits and different meanings. You think it means nothing to boy blue napkins instead of white ones, you may even think you did something good for the household, you bought necessary thing without remembrance, but it may be a fatal error and you will destroy all the evening and may be all your relationships. Why? She doesn't like blue napkins. You have been living together some years and she has never bought blue napkins. Haven't you noticed it? It means you are not interested in what she is doing, liking, thinking, caring about. It means a great quarrel and bad mood for both. You also can imagine the similar situation with your own habits neglecting by your beloved. Such things destroy happy marriages. If this person is important for you, you must think about it. You both must care of each other's tastes, likes and dislikes. The more you know, the better life you will have together!
The best way to show your care and attention is to be caring and attentive! Remember it and enjoy relationships!